Wednesday, September 17, 2008

Dear M

It is interesting to compare our horoscopes to check the compatibility of what is good or bad personal trails in us.  I have got all 4 choices as the last time I studied this sort of mysterious stuff, they are partially affected by the birthdates... U were in the tail of Aqua, so i listed the next horoscope as well; Im was supposed to be born a month ago and I was born in the beginning so i'd like to try to the previous one as well... somehow there could be something fun we could find out....

I highlighted those in purple colour which I found interesting...

(1) 魔羯座(土)+水瓶(風)=塵(踏實)

有活力的一對;共同的特性:穩定。
我:傳統的處事方式,同一個錯誤做一千遍也不厭,至到找到出路為止。
你:你最愛不按理出牌啦﹣我懂你。
可是我倆卻又同時不滿於現狀,要發掘新方向,要最完美的人生,結果就總是沒完沒了。。。
(看我倆同樣地尋醉埋醉於生活/烏托邦就知道這裡說的有多准確了。。。其它人,跟本不認為需要去尋醉。。。或何為不醉?
看來我們需要學習放棄在人生中不斷地跨欄/追求完美的特性了。。。
正因為如此才互相吸引了吧?
我需要看多一點外面的可能性;你需要多一點點兒的穩定.
和“後水瓶”你在各層面的根本和理智上都好。柔和的金星讓我倆崇愛美麗的東西。如果可少一點點兒“太過講究 affectio and attention“就可以成為很好的一對。

So we should not have affection and attention ?

it means we are the logical pairs ... but not the emotional pairs.

I thought we were quite emotional...

Wednesday,  17 Sep 2008    15:47



Capricorn + Aquarius  : Earth + Air  =  Dust
Capricorn and Aquarius create a mysterious combination of energies. 
Both of you are ruled by the planet Saturn, which means you have certain qualities in common, such as stability and predictability. But Aquarius also has the influence of Uranus, which leads to unpredictability.You’re thoroughly traditional, and love to stick to the tried and tested, whereas Aquarius believes that existing structures must be broken down. They’re not content with things as they are, and are constantly pushing situations to the limit.They also believe life should be explored and new ideas should be tested out; this is the way, they say, to get the most out of life. This approach can present immense hurdles for both of you. On the other hand, maybe these opposite natures are just what you both need. Perhaps you and Aquarius are two sides of the same coin. You need a bit of a push to move you out of your comfort zone and Aquarius needs your steady hand to keep them anchored in the here and now.

Your tastes in other areas of life also differ. You like antiques, and traditional art, where Aquarius likes more modern furnishings and abstract art. There could be the same sorts of differences in your musical tastes.

There are also some doubts in the area of intimacy. The explorer in Aquarius will make you feel a little staid and boring. If you take up some of the exciting sexual opportunities on offer it could bring you together far more quickly.

You’ll be enlightened by your excursions into new territory, and Aquarius might learn that a bit of old-fashioned lovemaking is just as pleasurable as anything else. Both of you should exercise a little open-mindedness in these matters, focus on your similarities rather than your differences, and give the other person’s style a go. 

Aquarians born between 21 January and 30 January are the revolutionaries of life. They will make you feel very uneasy, especially if they push their agenda too hard and fast. You will only be able to take measured doses of these people. Take it slow and easy with them. Aquarians born between 31 January and 8 February will bring you joy and humour, but are not necessarily fated for a long-term relationship with you. This combination could go either way. 

You’ll feel comfortable, intellectually and physically, with Aquarians born between 9 February and 18 February. 
The influence of Venus means they’re very much into all things beautiful. 
They also tend to be a little excessive by nature, and love lots of affection and attention. 
If you can to give them that, this could be a good match. 


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(2) You were born in the tail of Aqua, so I'd like to try to look into Pisces which might describe part of you.

縱然是個像土一樣柔和的zhu
Capricorn + Pisces 

Earth + Water = Mud

Although Capricorn and Pisces are both feminine and receptive signs, there are quite a few differences between you. 
The feminine is considered intuitive, in tune with emotions, and while this may be true at a deeper level, Capricorn is more drawn to the concrete and practical. 

Pisces, on the other hand, is obviously idealistic. 
They are into self-sacrifice and philosophical concepts, not material self-interest. 
This could be hard for you to understand, being as goal-oriented as you are, and it could make you feel poles apart.

You like things that can be proved, and don’t have much time for concepts that are beyond the senses. 
Pisces tend to feel life with their hearts rather than their minds, and are constantly daydreaming. 
This will frustrate you if you feel Pisces is not doing anything practical.

Nevertheless, Capricorn and Pisces can usually build a good friendship. 
They say that opposites attract; here’s your chance to test that theory. 
Don’t completely discount a Capricorn/Pisces love affair. 

You are very capable of sustained work and self-sacrifice towards material goals. 
Pisces is a wonderful and selfless worker as well, but tends to do so for the benefit of others
So this can in fact be an extremely good combination if you both understand a little of each other’s motivations. 

You’ll become less self-centred and driven by work if you get involved with Pisces. 
And Pisces will become more practical and will start to save money
Even though you’re not completely compatible, working together to build your relationship and your lives into something solid and enduring will eventually give you both a great deal of satisfaction. 

The most idealistic Pisces are those born between 19 February and 28/29 February. 
You could have a tough time with them, and eventually feel they are off with the fairies. 
There doesn’t seem to be a great initial connection; you might have to try hard with them to get to a deeper love. 

Pisces born between 1 March and 10 March have a strong lunar influence that colours their moods. You’ll feel comfortable with them. 
You’re quite likely to become strongly connected to them and look forward to a long-term partnership. 

With Pisceans born between 11 March and 20 March, friendship is a better bet than an intimate relationship. 
These people are quite intense, and they can look a lot softer and more fragile than they really are. 
You might think you have the upper hand with them, only to find that you’re very much mistaken. 


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(3) I was suppose to be born a month ago, plus Im in the beginning of Capricorn, so I'd like to look into Sag.

Sagittarius + Aquarius



Fire + Air = Hot Air



Both Sagittarius and Aquarius love a busy — perhaps even hectic — timetable, and love meeting people. 
You are likely to become great friends. 
New and progressive ideas and generally being in the centre of social action is something you both seek, so anything to do with clubs, theatres, outings and outdoor sports will attract both of you. 

But there are differences too. 
Your enthusiasm and self-confidence makes you very warm and demonstrative; 
Aquarius is a little more aloof. 

You must remember that Aquarius is very quirky by nature and progressive in all their attitudes. Fortunately, this doesn’t worry you. 
You are happy to let people have their own views.

But be prepared for some pretty abrupt and unexpected changes from Aquarius. (ehmm....i don think i like surprises... before i found my solid ground....)
Even though they are more methodical and prudent than you, there are times when they need a complete change of pace. 
This might throw you off balance and leave you struggling to adjust. 

Life with an Aquarian will be dynamic, and never dull or routine. (Thank you for that, but Im not sure if Im ready for that...)
You’ll find yourselves spending hour upon hour deep in discussions — about everything from the environment to politics to conspiracy theories to who knows what. 
You’ll entertain each other, and this will be the basis for a good, long-term friendship if nothing else. (I enjoy and love that a lot)

The sexual side of your relationship is likely to be high-energy and exciting. 
Aquarius is very electric, and very desirable. 
Your affection can help Aquarius relax and become calmer. 
This will be a great improvement on their usual frenzied approach. 
As long as they don’t bring that into the bedroom, you’ll be happy. 

If you find yourself with an Aquarian born between 21 January and 30 January you might be surprised to find just how strong-willed they are. 
It’s likely there will be a clash of wills, and a fierce clash at that! 
Take extra precautions if you’re seriously thinking of a relationship with them. 
Aquarians born between 31 January and 8 February are affected by the sign of Gemini and Mercury, which happens to rule your marriage sector. 
Holy wedlock might just be on the cards if you end up in a relationship with someone born in this period. Good luck.

Most Aquarians born between 9 February and 18 February will be far more romantically drawn to you if you’re born between 23 November and 1 December. 
The touch of Venus will help them soothe your soul and make you feel loved and cared for. 






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(4)

Sagittarius + Pisces



Fire + Water = Steam



Both Sagittarius and Pisces are ruled by Jupiter. 
This means you have some immediate understanding of each other, and similar ways of thinking.

But Pisces is also strongly influenced by Neptune, which makes them dreamy, sensitive and even mystical. 
This appeals to your Sagittarian idealism: you both feel there’s a deeper meaning to life. 
You could spend a lot of time tuning in to these common interests and building your relationship on them. 

There are also some significant differences between you. 
For example, you’re far more fiery and outgoing, and you could sometimes push receptive and easygoing Pisces to the point of retaliation.

Also, Pisces needs time to take in their surroundings, and likes to dream their dreams at their own pace. 
This is the opposite of your gung-ho approach — you like to get things done now. 
You’d rather implement dreams than dream them. 
This difference could be a sticking point in your relationship. 

Pisces does relate to the domestic side of Sagittarius, though. 
This is because Pisces wants to settle into a familiar environment, create a family and get down to the job of living a life that is nurturing.

That’s not to say they won’t enjoy exploring the world with you. 
The right sort of Pisces will soothe your tempestuous and volatile restlessness and share in the thrill of what you have to offer. 

The sexual and emotional aspirations of Sagittarius and Pisces have a lot in common, so there can be some exciting moments for the two of you, both inside and outside the bedroom. Sensually speaking, this is a good match. 

You could have very similar interests to Pisces born between 19 February and 28/29 February. 
These Pisceans have an intuitive streak, so listen to their suggestions when they get a hunch. This can help develop your relationship, believe it or not. 

Be on guard when dealing with Pisces born between 1 March and 10 March — their overemotional sensitivity can create disturbances for you. 
They are finicky about the way you should save or spend your money. 
Being as free and easy as you are, this won’t be easy to adjust to. 

You’ll love mixing with Pisces born between the 11 March and 20 March. 
They are strongly influenced by Mars, Pluto and Jupiter. 
There will be something secretive or clandestine about your contact with these Pisceans, though, so be prepared for a rather different type of relationship if you’re serious about getting involved with them. 





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水瓶男 VS. 魔羯女

配對評分:74 分

☆☆☆ 還不錯的一對 ☆☆☆ 



解析:



一般人總認為風象星座和土象星座是不合的,但這也有程度比較上的不同,水瓶座和摩羯座是相鄰的兩個星座,也是這兩象星座組合配對中比較好的一對。

但是要知道,摩羯跟您一樣是不太交心的星座,並且不像您表面較有親和力,不但外表有距離感,表裡如一的摩羯心也不怎麼好接近。



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瓶子覺得摩羯座的人看似簡單,但事實上卻不單純,而且也很嚴肅雖然他要的一切與做事方式對您來說,是太過實際,但對您而言,他就像是鎮定劑,能帶給您穩固的安定感。建議您與摩羯能以工作上相輔相成的配合方式談戀愛,那會因比較實際的共同目標而攜手;這樣摩羯的注意力會分散,瓶子會覺得比較自由、沒壓迫感...^_*

瓶子善作未來的計劃,合著摩羯座刻苦耐勞的精神,這樣的搭配將無往不利。

↑以水瓶來講~



解析:

土象星座遇上風象星座,通常他覺得無趣您則覺得無力,不容易組合成功。幸好,摩羯與瓶子位置相鄰,自然有些親切感。不過,對人生目標確定、做事穩重的摩羯,總認為理想派的瓶子一心想打破傳統,實在是太烏托邦雖然想法高妙,令您崇拜眩目,可是您又清楚他的想法不太踏實。在瓶子來說,像您這款“用力”愛他,實在讓他不知如何是好他是如此的博愛,對每個人都一律平等的友好,要怎麼給您“相同”的回報呢?這種“平等”的態度,絕對會是讓您非常非常嫉妒的一點!



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摩羯的您,一遇上知性聰明的人就抵擋不住,所以瓶子豐富的知識,中性清新又幽默的性格與冷靜的處事態度,很能挑動您的心弦,相處起來會相當愉快。可是,您是個標準的實踐主義者,瓶子這些吸引您的特質,一半來自他平時對興趣的投資,時間與金錢一樣也不少,您看在眼裡,覺得他實在既不經濟又無所事事,尤其他所做的事,最後大概有百分之八十會沒“結果”;做朋友還好,若是情人、夫妻實在蠻辛苦的!

您若真受他的特質所吸引,必須要克制自己想教育他邁入現實化的慾望,您還是可以用長輩的姿態去疼愛他,卻不要用老早過氣的高壓命命方式。其實大膽作夢的瓶子所“幻想”的事,並不是絕無可能達成,他缺的是像您這般英明睿智的後援支持。別急著去指責、嘮叨他,試著幫他實踐才有建設性嘛!切記:再怎麼用力愛他,嘔心瀝血,也比不上用心和他一起經營志趣來得有用。

↑以魔羯來說~


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hahaha
my bf is really lazy

10.魔羯熟女最看不上的男生…牡羊座。

魔羯座的女生很成熟,凡事都想的很完整,做事情很有計畫,可是牡羊座要做就做,即使沒有計畫他也相信世界為他而開,久而久之牡羊男的幼稚行為會讓魔羯女發現她是在照顧一個小孩,這是魔羯女最受不了的事情。

.與處女座女生最難溝通的男生星座是…水瓶座。

水瓶座的男生讓處女座的女生感到很挫敗,為了水瓶男好,為他想盡所有的事情,水瓶男沒有反應就是沒有反應,因為對水瓶男而言進度是掌握在自己手裡,雖然他愛對方也沒有離開對方,但卻不代表對方可以改變他
hahah too true
水瓶座的男人有時候對朋友的好已經超過對女朋友的好,因為水瓶男對女友的態度有時候是忽冷忽熱或者不理不踩,但是他對普通的朋友甚至是異性的朋友都非常的好,其實水瓶座的特性就是對於親近的人是不用感覺的,反而是對有點距離的人特別好,因此久而久之會讓水瓶男的女朋友覺得自己在他的心目中越來越沒有份量,自然心中就沒有安全感。



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